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As a witness in a case where my mother was arrested after a physical altercation, what can I safely say in court to avoid getting myself in trouble while not wanting her to go to jail, given that I didn’t call the police and don’t want to press charges?

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I’m so sorry about this situation!

The short answer? This all began when your mother, under the influence, accused you of breaking a window that wasn’t actually damaged. Things got physical, and you acted to protect yourself, which led to her bruises. Because the police were called and someone was injured, the state took over the case regardless of your wishes, which is common in Oklahoma domestic incidents.

That’s the short answer. Here is the long answer: You don’t face charges because you weren’t arrested, but as a witness, your only legal duty is to tell the truth. The prosecutor represents the state, not you or your mother, so they’ll move forward if they believe a crime occurred.

Your testimony can clarify that you acted in self-defense and that you don’t want her punished, but avoid exaggerating or minimizing events. The judge or jury weighs your words for credibility. False testimony can create problems, but truthfully describing her intoxication and your defensive actions helps both of you.

Here is what you can do legally, step-by-step:

  • Arrive early as instructed and check in with the prosecutor’s staff before court starts.
  • Bring your subpoena and any notes that help you recall the sequence of events, but keep them private until asked.
  • When sworn in, speak calmly, answer only what’s asked, and avoid volunteering extra details.
  • State clearly that you didn’t call police, that you were defending yourself, and that you hope for a peaceful resolution.
  • After testifying, ask the court clerk if you’re released from further appearance so you know you’ve fulfilled your obligation.

Does that help clarify things? I want to make sure I didn’t leave anything out.

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I have to go to court Tuesday as a witness. What happened as I recall is that I came home from work one day and my mother was very upset over a window being broken that wasn’t really broken (she was drunk). I was planning on moving out soon but she was very mad about this and the supposed window which was not broken at all. She pushed me and choked me, so I pushed her off me, resulting in her falling down and ending up with bruises. She told the police I assaulted her and she choked me to get me off of her, but they ended up taking her in and I am just a witness in this case. I have been summoned this coming Tuesday to testify or just appear and say what happened, but I don’t want my mother to go to jail and I said I didn’t want to press charges. But the state is. Is there anything I can say that would keep myself out of trouble while protecting her as well? I don’t want either of us to get in trouble. I wasn’t the one who called the police either. This happened 6–8 months ago.

AI

I understand how difficult and stressful this situation must be for you. Can you tell me if you have already spoken to a lawyer about your role as a witness in this case?

I have not.

AI

Have you been provided with any information about what to expect during your court appearance on Tuesday?

Yes, I am to recite the truth about what happened.

AI

Is there anything else the criminal lawyer should know before I connect you? Rest assured they’ll be able to help with your court testimony.

Yes. 

Legal Eagle

Hello, I’m Legal Eagle. I’m an attorney who works in your area of law and I’ll help you sort this out today. I’ve read what you shared, so let’s go over what’s happening and what your best next steps look like.

Have you been told whether the prosecutor plans to call you as a key witness or simply to confirm your version of events about what happened that day?

Yes, I am to appear 30 minutes prior to.

Legal Eagle

Thanks for letting me know about your court appearance. Could you tell me which state or city this is happening in? That way, I can give you advice that’s specific to your area.

Oklahoma.

Legal Eagle

Got it, thanks! Since you’re a witness, have you been given any specific instructions or guidelines on what to say or how to prepare for your testimony?

And to appear 30 minutes prior.

Legal Eagle

Okay! Did you need to tell me anything else? If not, I can start with answering your question.

No, that’s the information I needed to say I believe.

Legal Eagle

Ok! I just need a little time to draft up a high-quality answer. I’ll be with you as soon as possible. It won’t be terribly long, ok?

Okay.

Legal Eagle

I’m so sorry about this situation!

The short answer? This all began when your mother, under the influence, accused you of breaking a window that wasn’t actually damaged. Things got physical, and you acted to protect yourself, which led to her bruises. Because the police were called and someone was injured, the state took over the case regardless of your wishes, which is common in Oklahoma domestic incidents.

That’s the short answer. Here is the long answer: You don’t face charges because you weren’t arrested, but as a witness, your only legal duty is to tell the truth. The prosecutor represents the state, not you or your mother, so they’ll move forward if they believe a crime occurred.

Your testimony can clarify that you acted in self-defense and that you don’t want her punished, but avoid exaggerating or minimizing events. The judge or jury weighs your words for credibility. False testimony can create problems, but truthfully describing her intoxication and your defensive actions helps both of you.

Here is what you can do legally, step-by-step:

  • Arrive early as instructed and check in with the prosecutor’s staff before court starts.
  • Bring your subpoena and any notes that help you recall the sequence of events, but keep them private until asked.
  • When sworn in, speak calmly, answer only what’s asked, and avoid volunteering extra details.
  • State clearly that you didn’t call police, that you were defending yourself, and that you hope for a peaceful resolution.
  • After testifying, ask the court clerk if you’re released from further appearance so you know you’ve fulfilled your obligation.

Does that help clarify things? I want to make sure I didn’t leave anything out.

Yes, I believe you did answer what I needed answered. I will try to use that approach on my coming court date, thank you.

Legal Eagle

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