[VA] Can my spouse and I meet Virginia’s separation requirement for a divorce if we live in the same house?
Hello. Are you able to see my documents? I'm getting a divorce, and we want to make sure what we have is going to go through as easily as possible.
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In Virginia, you can live in the same house and still meet the separation requirement as long as you don’t resume a marital relationship, such as sharing a bedroom or engaging in marital activities (Virginia Code § 20-91(A)(9)(a)).
Backdating the separation date could be possible, but it’s essential to ensure the details are clear and well-documented. If both parties agree, and there’s no dispute over the timeline, the court is likely to accept the separation date, especially if you have a Separation Agreement in place.
It’s wise to consult with a Virginia family law attorney to ensure everything is properly documented and avoid any potential issues.
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Hello. Are you able to see my documents? I'm getting a divorce, and we want to make sure what we have is going to go through as easily as possible.
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I understand that going through a divorce can be a challenging time. Have you and your spouse already agreed on how to divide your assets and debts?
Yes.
Lexi, Chatbot
Are there any specific concerns or disputes regarding child custody or visitation arrangements?
Nope. We've agreed on everything.
Lexi, Chatbot
Is there anything else the Family Lawyer should know before I connect you? Rest assured they’ll be able to help with your divorce process.
Not that I can think of. We're both trying to make this as painless as possible.
Angelo M
Greetings! My name is Angelo, and I'm an experienced and licensed attorney with over 40+ years of practice in the field of Law.
Hi Angelo. I'm in the process of getting a divorce. It is an amicable one, and we've agreed on all the details. I really just want to make sure we don't miss anything during the filing that will come back to haunt us later.
Angelo M
Well the next step would typically involve filing your divorce petition with the court, along with any agreements you've made (like a property settlement or parenting plan, if applicable). If you're in a no-fault divorce state, the process can be straightforward as long as both parties are in agreement.
Since you've already worked out the details, the next steps would involve:
- Filing the divorce petition with the court.
- Submitting any signed agreements (such as a separation agreement) that outline your asset division and child custody arrangements.
- Attending a final hearing, if required, where the judge will review your documents and, if everything is in order, grant the divorce.
Angelo M
I hope I was able to help you and answer all of your questions and concerns. Is there any part of my response that you need clarification on or any further information? Did you have any other questions on this subject for me today?
I live in Virginia. The main thing my current spouse is worried about is the separation requirement. We still live in the same house, as finding a new one just hasn't been feasible until just recently, and we haven't had a chance to do so.
Virginia requires we live separate for one year, but my understanding is you can 'live separately' in the same house so long as certain rules are kept in place. We haven't slept in the same bedroom for four years, and basically act more like reluctant roommates than a married couple.
We never signed a Separation Agreement, though I've made one now and would like to back date the separation date back to when I believe we really separated years ago. Will that cause any issues if neither of us is contesting anything in the divorce paperwork?
Angelo M
In Virginia, you can live in the same house and still meet the separation requirement as long as you don’t resume a marital relationship, such as sharing a bedroom or engaging in marital activities (Virginia Code § 20-91(A)(9)(a)).
Backdating the separation date could be possible, but it’s essential to ensure the details are clear and well-documented. If both parties agree, and there’s no dispute over the timeline, the court is likely to accept the separation date, especially if you have a Separation Agreement in place.
It’s wise to consult with a Virginia family law attorney to ensure everything is properly documented and avoid any potential issues.
Thanks.
Angelo M
You’re very welcome! Thank you so much and Happy New Year to you and your extended family! Thank you so much for giving me the opportunity to assist you, and please don't hesitate to reach out if you have any further questions or concerns.
Angelo M
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