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Is there a good way on a parenting agreement to say that either parent cannot have the children around someone?

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I'm sorry you're dealing with this. If you and the other parent can’t agree on the parenting plan provisions, the only way to move forward is to file for divorce and ask a judge to put a temporary custody order in place.

The judge will determine whether the children can be around the uncle based on what's in the children's best interests (§ 31-17-2-8). This includes factors like stable income, housing, and the absence of drug, alcohol, or violence issues (§ 31-17-2-12).

Unfortunately, there’s no way to force the other parent to agree to a parenting plan. And even if you have one in place, it’s not enforceable unless it’s filed in court. If the other parent doesn’t follow it, you’d need to seek enforcement through the court system.

I hope that helps. If you need an attorney, contact your local bar association for a referral, or check with your local legal aid society for free or low-cost services. Local law school clinics are also a good resource.

Let me know if you need help understanding the next steps or have more questions.

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Is there a good way on a parenting agreement to say that either parent cannot have the children around someone?

Lexi

Lexi, Chatbot

I understand your concern. Are you looking to restrict one parent from having the children around a specific individual?

Yes. The children’s father does not want to sign the agreement until we include the restriction that the children are not allowed around his brother, the children’s uncle.

Lexi

Lexi, Chatbot

Are there any specific reasons or concerns regarding this individual being around the children?

He feels as though this individual will harm the children. I, however, do not feel that way.

Lexi

Lexi, Chatbot

Is there anything else the lawyer should know before I connect you? 

That's all.

Charlie

Charlie

Hello, my name is Charlie, and I’m a licensed attorney. I’m sorry you’re experiencing these issues, but I’ll be happy to assist you today. Please give me a moment to review your question. Which state do you live in?

Indiana.

Charlie

Charlie

Understood. How old are your children?

The oldest is six years old, and the youngest is two years old.

Charlie

Charlie

Got it. Are you and the other parent married?

Yes, but we’re separated and getting divorced.

Charlie

Charlie

Has the divorce already been filed?

Not yet. I’m currently working on it.

Charlie

Charlie

Completely understand. Are you trying to put a parenting plan in place until the divorce is filed and custody is established?

Yes.

Charlie

Charlie

Okay. Let me provide some information to help — it’ll just take a few minutes.

Thank you.

Charlie

Charlie

I'm sorry you're dealing with this. If you and the other parent can’t agree on the parenting plan provisions, the only way to move forward is to file for divorce and ask a judge to put a temporary custody order in place.

The judge will determine whether the children can be around the uncle based on what's in the children's best interests (§ 31-17-2-8). This includes factors like stable income, housing, and the absence of drug, alcohol, or violence issues (§ 31-17-2-12).

Unfortunately, there’s no way to force the other parent to agree to a parenting plan. And even if you have one in place, it’s not enforceable unless it’s filed in court. If the other parent doesn’t follow it, you’d need to seek enforcement through the court system.

I hope that helps. If you need an attorney, contact your local bar association for a referral, or check with your local legal aid society for free or low-cost services. Local law school clinics are also a good resource.

Let me know if you need help understanding the next steps or have more questions.

Okay, thank you.

Charlie

Charlie

You’re welcome — glad to help in any way. I wish you the best in this difficult situation. Thank you and take care.

Charlie

Charlie

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