[GA] My wife cheated on me and took the kids to her abusive parents’ house. What can I do?

Lexi, Chatbot

I’m sorry to hear about the difficult situation you’re facing. Have you and your wife discussed the possibility of separation or divorce?

Lexi, Chatbot

Are you concerned about the safety and well-being of your children while they are staying with your wife’s parents?

Lexi, Chatbot

Is there anything else the family lawyer should know before I connect you? Rest assured they’ll be able to help with your family law issue.

Jon

Hello and thank you for reaching out! I’m Jon, a licensed attorney with over 13 years of experience, and I’m here to help.

I know legal matters can feel overwhelming, but you're in good hands. I’ll do my best to make things clear and provide you with the guidance you need. Let’s work together to find the right solution for your situation.

You want to know what you can do here since she took the kids and left, bringing them to an unsafe environment?

Jon

Ok, so you want to know your rights generally then?

Jon

Understood! I think I have all the information I need, but is there anything else you'd like to add before I get started on your answer? If not, I'll start working on a response for you right away.

Jon

Your wife’s admission that she has a “friend with benefits,” along with your recorded conversation with a witness, could serve as strong evidence of adultery. In Georgia, adultery is recognized as a legal ground for divorce (GA Code § 19-5-3(6)), and it can impact things like alimony—potentially disqualifying her from receiving support. It may also influence how the court views property division, even though Georgia generally aims for a fair (not necessarily equal) split.

While adultery doesn't usually decide custody, it could become relevant if it affects your children’s well-being or calls her judgment into question.

When it comes to your children, if there’s no custody order in place, both parents typically have equal rights. But all custody decisions in Georgia revolve around what’s best for the child. (GA Code § 19-9-3(3)) If your wife moved the kids into her parents’ home and you have serious concerns about that environment—especially if there's a history of violence or alcohol abuse—you should act quickly. You can file a motion with the court for a temporary custody order. That could involve asking the court to bring the children back or set a temporary visitation schedule.

To support your case, gather evidence: police reports, messages, witness statements, or anything else that confirms your concerns about the environment. Also, document everything—events, dates, and conversations. Georgia is a one-party consent state, so your recording is legal if you were part of the conversation.

With your attorney, you can begin filing for divorce based on adultery and also request temporary orders for custody and support. Even though your wife declined marriage counseling, the court may still order mediation before a trial.

Do not take matters into your own hands—such as removing the children without a court order—as that could hurt your case. Keep communication civil and child-focused, ideally in writing.

The most important step right now is to speak with a family law attorney in Georgia as soon as possible. Many attorneys offer free consultations. You can search Avvo.com for reputable lawyers or look into local legal aid if needed.

Jon

Very welcome, glad I was able to help! I do hope the information I provided was helpful and addressed your question. If there's anything else you need, please don’t hesitate to reach out—I’m always happy to assist. Wishing you a fantastic day ahead!