[TN] [TN] How do I get full custody of my child?
I have a question about parental rights in Tennessee. I am the primary custodian of my daughter, but I'm curious about pursuing full custody.
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If she will not agree to give you full custody, then based on Tennessee law and your current circumstances, here’s a path to pursue full custody—meaning both legal and physical custody—while minimizing disruption and maximizing defensibility:
Step-by-Step Strategy to Seek Full Custody in Tennessee
1. Understand What “Full Custody” Means in Tennessee
Tennessee doesn’t formally use the term “full custody.” Instead, it divides custody into:
- Residential Parenting Time (where the child lives)
- Legal Decision-Making Authority (who makes major decisions)
You’re already the Primary Residential Parent (PRP), which is a strong starting point.
2. Document the Mother’s Inconsistent Involvement
To build a compelling case, you’ll need to show that shared custody is no longer in the child’s best interest:
- Keep records of:
- Missed parenting time
- Early, unannounced returns
- Lack of communication
- Refusal to engage in co-parenting
These patterns suggest instability and lack of commitment, which courts weigh heavily.
3. File a Petition to Modify Custody
- You’ll need to file a Petition to Modify the Parenting Plan in the appropriate Tennessee family court.
- Grounds for modification include:
- A material change in circumstances (e.g., chronic failure to exercise parenting time)
- Evidence that sole custody better serves the child’s emotional and physical well-being.
4. Build a Case Around the Child’s Best Interests
The judge will focus on the best interests of the child. Tennessee courts prioritize the child’s welfare above all else:
- Highlight your role as the consistent caregiver
- Emphasize the stability of your home
- Show your willingness to foster a healthy relationship with the other parent—even if she doesn’t reciprocate
- If your daughter is 12 or older, her preference may be considered by the judge.
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I have a question about parental rights in Tennessee. I am the primary custodian of my daughter, but I'm curious about pursuing full custody.
Lexi, Chatbot
I understand that navigating parental rights can be challenging. What specific concerns do you have regarding your current custody arrangement?
I receive child support, but I'm willing to give that up for full custody. Her mother does not take advantage of a significant amount of her parenting time, and when she opts not to, it causes my daughter distress.
Lexi, Chatbot
Have there been any recent changes in your situation or your daughter's life that might impact custody?
Human, please.
Lexi, Chatbot
Is there anything else the family lawyer should know before I connect you? Rest assured, they'll be able to help with custody modification.
Yes
Lori
Hey there! I'm Lori, an attorney with many years of experience, and I'm here to help you. I'm available to assist you today.
- Could you share more details about your current custody arrangement and what specific concerns you have?
- Is the child residing in Tennessee?
- Has the other parent agreed to give up shared custody?
Hi Lori.
- I have primary custody. The mother generally only takes advantage of roughly two months during the summer, as she lives about 900 miles away and is responsible for all transportation. My concerns are that she rarely uses the full time allotted and regularly returns my daughter unannounced and before the expected date. She almost never takes advantage of other allotted parenting time slots.
- The child resides in Tennessee with me most of the time.
- The mother does not communicate with me and has not acknowledged any offers for giving up shared custody, either positively or negatively.
Lori
Understood. Thanks for the information. Please give me some time to review, do some research, and draft my personalized response. I will get back to you as soon as possible.
Am I speaking with a human or a chatbot?
Lori
I am a human live with you today.
Okay, thank you. I will wait.
Lori
If she will not agree to give you full custody, then based on Tennessee law and your current circumstances, here’s a path to pursue full custody—meaning both legal and physical custody—while minimizing disruption and maximizing defensibility:
Step-by-Step Strategy to Seek Full Custody in Tennessee
1. Understand What “Full Custody” Means in Tennessee
Tennessee doesn’t formally use the term “full custody.” Instead, it divides custody into:
- Residential Parenting Time (where the child lives)
- Legal Decision-Making Authority (who makes major decisions)
You’re already the Primary Residential Parent (PRP), which is a strong starting point.
2. Document the Mother’s Inconsistent Involvement
To build a compelling case, you’ll need to show that shared custody is no longer in the child’s best interest:
- Keep records of:
- Missed parenting time
- Early, unannounced returns
- Lack of communication
- Refusal to engage in co-parenting
These patterns suggest instability and lack of commitment, which courts weigh heavily.
3. File a Petition to Modify Custody
- You’ll need to file a Petition to Modify the Parenting Plan in the appropriate Tennessee family court.
- Grounds for modification include:
- A material change in circumstances (e.g., chronic failure to exercise parenting time)
- Evidence that sole custody better serves the child’s emotional and physical well-being.
4. Build a Case Around the Child’s Best Interests
The judge will focus on the best interests of the child. Tennessee courts prioritize the child’s welfare above all else:
- Highlight your role as the consistent caregiver
- Emphasize the stability of your home
- Show your willingness to foster a healthy relationship with the other parent—even if she doesn’t reciprocate
- If your daughter is 12 or older, her preference may be considered by the judge.
Okay, thank you.
Lori
You’re welcome. Thank you for allowing me to assist you today. Have a nice evening!
You as well.
Lori
Thank you.
Lori
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