Skip to main content

What do I do if my ex-husband claimed me on his taxes?

My ex-husband filed taxes claiming me without telling me. He kept the refund and attempted to file back taxes. He deposited the refund into his sole account.

16

5

Andres Sanchez
Andres Sanchez

22,292 satisfied customers

View context
Solved

Here’s how I would approach this — step by step — if you’re in this situation:

1. Confirm exactly what was filed.

Get a copy of the returns that were submitted. You can create an IRS online account at www.irs.gov to view your tax transcripts — look for Account Transcript and Return Transcript for the relevant years. You can also call the IRS at 1-800-829-1040 for personal assistance.

2. Determine if he signed your name.

If you did not sign or consent, and he signed your name (electronically or on paper), that is tax fraud and potentially identity theft. Filing jointly without your knowledge or forged signature is illegal.

3. Report to the IRS (Identity Theft).

If you believe you are a victim of identity theft, file IRS Form 14039 — Identity Theft Affidavit. Mail or fax it to the address on the form with any supporting documents. Keep a copy for your records. Call the IRS Identity Protection Specialized Unit (IPSU) at 1-800-908-4490.

4. Notify the tax preparer.

Call or send a certified letter to the tax service your ex-husband used. Demand a copy of the signed authorization forms. Inform them that you never consented — they may be required to cooperate with the IRS and could face penalties for fraud.

5. Address the fraudulent refund deposit.

If he deposited a refund that you were entitled to, it’s both tax fraud and likely marital financial misconduct (if you’re still resolving finances). You can also report this to the IRS Criminal Investigation Division. File Form 14157 — Complaint: Tax Return Preparer if the preparer was involved. Consider a police report for fraud or theft if appropriate.

6. Amend or correct your tax record.

You may need to file your own correct return for the affected year(s). If you are entitled to part of the refund, the IRS may pursue him for repayment.

7. Consider civil action if necessary.

If this has caused you financial harm (e.g., he kept all your share of the refund), you may have a claim in family court or small claims depending on the amount. If you’re divorced, check if your divorce decree says anything about splitting tax refunds.

0

Full Conversation


My ex-husband filed taxes claiming me without telling me. He kept the refund and attempted to file back taxes. He deposited the refund into his sole account.

Lexi

Lexi, Chatbot

I’m sorry to hear about the situation with your ex-husband and the tax issues you’re facing. Have you already contacted the IRS regarding the unauthorized tax filing?

Yes

Lexi

Lexi, Chatbot

Are there any specific documents or evidence you have that support your claim against your ex-husband?

Yes

Lexi

Lexi, Chatbot

Is there anything else the Lawyer should know before I connect you? Rest assured they’ll be able to help with your tax filing issue.

Emails and texts saying don’t claim me. And the tax lady wouldn’t give me a copy. I have emails.

Andres Sanchez

Andres Sanchez

Hello my name is Andres Sanchez and I am an attorney with 20 years of experience. Could you clarify what you would like to know?

My ex-husband went to a tax service and filed taxes without my consent. I didn’t sign anything. I don’t live in his city.

Andres Sanchez

Andres Sanchez

I am sorry to hear that. What can I answer for you?

He attempted to file our back taxes also, but I found out. He never asked me to sign anything or authorize him. He deposited the refund in his account.

Andres Sanchez

Andres Sanchez

Here’s how I would approach this — step by step — if you’re in this situation:

1. Confirm exactly what was filed.

Get a copy of the returns that were submitted. You can create an IRS online account at www.irs.gov to view your tax transcripts — look for Account Transcript and Return Transcript for the relevant years. You can also call the IRS at 1-800-829-1040 for personal assistance.

2. Determine if he signed your name.

If you did not sign or consent, and he signed your name (electronically or on paper), that is tax fraud and potentially identity theft. Filing jointly without your knowledge or forged signature is illegal.

3. Report to the IRS (Identity Theft).

If you believe you are a victim of identity theft, file IRS Form 14039 — Identity Theft Affidavit. Mail or fax it to the address on the form with any supporting documents. Keep a copy for your records. Call the IRS Identity Protection Specialized Unit (IPSU) at 1-800-908-4490.

4. Notify the tax preparer.

Call or send a certified letter to the tax service your ex-husband used. Demand a copy of the signed authorization forms. Inform them that you never consented — they may be required to cooperate with the IRS and could face penalties for fraud.

5. Address the fraudulent refund deposit.

If he deposited a refund that you were entitled to, it’s both tax fraud and likely marital financial misconduct (if you’re still resolving finances). You can also report this to the IRS Criminal Investigation Division. File Form 14157 — Complaint: Tax Return Preparer if the preparer was involved. Consider a police report for fraud or theft if appropriate.

6. Amend or correct your tax record.

You may need to file your own correct return for the affected year(s). If you are entitled to part of the refund, the IRS may pursue him for repayment.

7. Consider civil action if necessary.

If this has caused you financial harm (e.g., he kept all your share of the refund), you may have a claim in family court or small claims depending on the amount. If you’re divorced, check if your divorce decree says anything about splitting tax refunds.

Thanks for your info.

Andres Sanchez

Andres Sanchez

You're welcome. I hope everything works out for you.

Same here. Good day.

Andres Sanchez

Andres Sanchez

Thanks.

Andres Sanchez

Andres Sanchez

22,292 satisfied customers

Andres Sanchez
Welcome! Have a similar question?

5 lawyers online now

Brandon
Brandon

Attorney

4.56 (16,155)

[CA] [CA] What are the minimum legal requirements for a postnup?

16

6

Answered 3 days ago

Andres Sanchez
Andres Sanchez

Attorney

4.73 (22,292)

[FL] [FL] Can a POA be signed in multiple states?

20

7

Answered 4 days ago

TJ, Esq.
TJ, Esq.

4.68 (17,778)

[GA] [GA] How do I legally change my name and gender?

14

5

Answered 4 days ago

Disclaimer


By messaging AskaLawyer.com, you agree to our Terms and have read our Privacy Policy.

The information provided on AskaLawyer.com is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. While we strive to ensure the accuracy and timeliness of the information presented, we make no guarantees regarding its completeness or applicability to your specific circumstances.

Use of this website does not create an attorney-client relationship between you and AskaLawyer.com or any of its attorneys. Communications through this website, including any responses from attorneys, are not privileged or confidential. For advice tailored to your individual situation, we recommend consulting a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

AskaLawyer.com disclaims any liability for actions taken or not taken based on the content of this site. We are not responsible for any third-party content that may be accessed through this website. Reliance on any information provided herein is solely at your own risk.

Ask a Lawyer Logo
Ask a Lawyer Logo
Intake Questions
Step of 3
Loading...
Loading...

How do you like to pay?

By proceeding with payment, you agree to our Terms and Privacy Policy. You authorize us to charge $ today and $ thereafter until canceled. You may cancel anytime in the My Account section to stop future charges.

Total Due:

After purchasing, your chat will begin with an attorney.

By proceeding with payment, you agree to our Terms and Privacy Policy. You authorize us to charge $ today and $ thereafter until canceled. You may cancel anytime in the My Account section to stop future charges.

Total Due:

After purchasing, your chat will begin with an attorney.

It looks like you already have an account with Ask a Lawyer.

We have sent you a magic link to . Click the link in your email to sign in and continue your chat.

spin

Step of 6 •

You'll receive an email at as soon as the lawyer joins the conversation 🙏🏻😊

Over 90% of lawyers connect within 5 minutes. If you're not online at that moment, don't worry — the lawyer will reply to your message while you're away.

You're also welcome to stay in the chat while waiting to be connected 💬✨

Waiting for lawyer