[FL] How do I get a video removed from social media?

Lexi, Chatbot

I understand. Have you tried reporting the video to the platforms directly?

Lexi, Chatbot

Do you have a written agreement with the uploader about removal?

Lexi, Chatbot

Anything else the lawyer should know before I connect you?

Randy M.

Hi — I’m Randy. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. 

Randy M.

A few practical steps and legal options:

1. Document everything about the verbal agreement (date, what was said, any witnesses).
2. Contact the uploader in writing (text/email/message), withdraw any consent, demand removal within 48–72 hours, and set a deadline — that creates a paper trail.
3. Report the video to each platform citing privacy/unauthorized use of your likeness (not copyright unless you created the video). Platforms have “posted without permission” or “privacy violation” options — be specific about the violation.
4. If reports and direct requests fail, consult a privacy/media attorney to send a formal cease-and-desist or evaluate tort claims (right of publicity, invasion of privacy, intentional infliction of emotional distress).
5. To reduce reuploads, set up Google Alerts and report new instances quickly.

A couple legal notes — copyright belongs to the creator (usually the filmer), so DMCA takedowns often won’t help if you didn’t film it. But many states have right-of-publicity or privacy laws that can apply, especially if the posting is commercial or was filmed in a private setting without consent.

Documented emergency mental-health treatment related to the video (Baker Act) strengthens your case — it shows concrete harm and may justify faster action by platforms and stronger legal claims (emotional distress, privacy violations). Keep all medical records that reference the video.

Randy M.

That’s okay — focus on two immediate actions: (1) report the video to every platform right away using their “privacy violation / posted without permission” options and explain the harm; (2) send a written demand to the uploader documenting the Baker Act and demanding removal. If those don’t work in a few weeks, get a lawyer to send a formal cease-and-desist and assess litigation options.

Randy M.

Timelines — many takedowns resolve in 2–4 weeks if platforms act quickly; appeals and non-cooperation can add time. Legal proceedings take longer (months). How to report (quick guide):

• YouTube — video page → three dots → Report → “Infringes my rights” → “Invades my privacy.”
• Facebook/Instagram — three dots → “Find support or report post” → choose Privacy Violation.
• TikTok — long press → Report → “Privacy and safety.”
• X (Twitter) — three dots on tweet → Report Tweet → “It’s abusive or harmful” → “Includes private information.”

When reporting, cite policy language (e.g., “posted without consent,” “causing documented psychological harm”) and mention your Baker Act if it’s relevant.

Randy M.

Start with free steps: platform reports, written demand, and Google Alerts. Attorney fees apply if you want a lawyer-drafted cease-and-desist or litigation. Many attorneys do one-off letters for a flat fee — ask for a quote. You can also get initial consultations for free or low cost.

Randy M.

Good — document that you sent it. If you need, I can help draft stronger language or list platform-specific reporting links. Take care and have a good weekend.